Izbjegavači ili Avoidants
Ljudi koji bježe od svojih loših postupaka (izbjegavaći) obično osjećaju "lažni ponos"; vjeruju da je dozvoljeno gaziti dobre ljude jer ih vide kao naivne i slabe, dok sebe doživljavaju kao superiornije, napredne i snažne. Istina je ipak drugačija. Dobri ljudi sebi ne dozvoljavaju da im se srce zamrači samo zato što se netko loše odnosi prema njima - to je prava snaga i nešto s čime se treba ponositi. Izbjegavaći su ništa drugo nego nezahvalne, površne, nezrele kukavice, koje posežu za okrutnim mehanizmima (gostanje, tretmani šutnje) kako bi izbjegli odgovornost za počinjena loša djela i sebi napumpali ego, a zapravo cijelo vrijeme izbjegavaju sami sebe pogledati u ogledalo. Oni sami sebi otvrdnjuju srce, emotivno se zakidaju i oblače halje okrutnosti. Potpuno su slijepi za istinu jer žive u svom balonu izgrađenom od gro obrambenih mehanizama.
Prijevod:
People who run away from their bad actions (avoidants) usually feel "false pride"; they believe it is permissible to trample on good people because they see them as naive and weak, while they see themselves as superior, progressive, and strong. The truth is different, however. Good people do not allow their hearts to darken just because someone treats them badly - that is true strength and something to be proud of. Avoidants are nothing more than ungrateful, superficial, immature cowards, who resort to cruel mechanisms (ghosting, silent treatments) to avoid responsibility for their bad actions and pump up their egos, while in fact they are avoiding looking at themselves in the mirror all the time. They harden their hearts, emotionally deprive themselves, and put on the robes of cruelty. They are completely blind to the truth because they live in their own bubble built of defense mechanisms.
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